There’s something uniquely jarring about being ghosted—a gut-punch of silence that leaves you questioning everything: your words, your actions, and even your worth. Now, imagine this happening at the hands of someone you felt deeply connected to, someone you trusted. That’s where I found myself not too long ago—ghosted! If…
I’m hurt…angry…and sad. He was only 39 and approaching his 40th bearthday in just a little over a month. What can I say, other than Cancer is a muthaphuckin’ beast that many of us cannot destroy. I hate the C word. It’s ugly… It doesn’t care who you are…what you…
I have sporadically come across this Annie Lee painting called ‘Blue Monday’ throughout my life, and every time I see it, the more I can visually and emotionally relate to it. It didn’t affect me, until I became an adult with a life that’s been lifin’! Art has a unique…
First things first, let’s tackle the mindset that many folks have. Many people feel a bit uneasy about going out alone. They worry about looking lonely or out of place. But here’s a little secret: being comfortable in your own company is a superpower! It’s all about shifting your perspective.…
There’s something magical about the day at the spa. I always imagined it as the epitome of relaxation, a luxury for those who have truly mastered the art of self-care. So, when the opportunity for my first spa experience came knocking, I couldn’t help but feel a mix of excitement,…
When it comes to attention seekers and egotists, they sometimes are both ends of the same coin. Although both are driven by a pursuit of recognition and admiration, a closer look reveals subtle nuances that separate these seemingly synonymous personas. I had a recent situation that played out online and…
Imagine your kid trading in sneakers for combat boots! This is MY experience, and let me tell you, the thought of my son leaving has me crying a Denzel tear when he’s not in my presence, but with a smile. I think I’ve done a good job in the motherhood…
Navigating a plethora of emotions can often feel like attempting to solve a puzzle without a guidebook. I feel like this song should be the theme song to this think piece, so press play and get submerged in the words. There are moments when we find ourselves unable to decipher…
Every time I stay home, I’d rather be out, but every time I go out, I’d rather be home. I deal with the inevitable confusion ever so often. The older I get, the more I realize that home is where the heart is and outside the home cost to f*#ckin’…
I’ve revisited the idea of blogging, because well…I really need another method, outside of Youtube, to express thoughts and ideas. For many, including myself, blogging was once a fervent pursuit, a means to explore ideas, engage with an audience, and leave a digital footprint… LONG BEFORE THE PODCAST PHENOMENON! However,…