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    Why You’re Not Going to Be “Grand Rising, Queen’ing”Me to Death!

    April 19, 2024 - By Lakia McDaniel

    Disclaimer: If you’re not into sarcastic humor, this isn’t the think piece for you. Now, that I’ve got that out the way, it’s time to talk about the common text message that turns most women off and that’s the “Grand rising, Queen” text. It’s slightly above that old tired, “Good…

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  • Pop/Urban Culture - Social commentary

    The Trend of Tears: Why Adults Post Videos of Themselves Crying on Social Media

    April 18, 2024 - By Lakia McDaniel

    I see this quite often. There’s a lot of folks in social media land that chooses this worldwide platform to pour their hearts out. Now, before I go any further with this think piece, I must share that I, too, have shed a tear or two in a couple of…

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  • Media/Entertainment/Celebs - Television & Film

    Why Teri from Soul Food is the Unsung Hero

    April 18, 2024 - By Lakia McDaniel

    I was 21 years old when one of my favorite films, Soul Food, was released. Now that I’m older, more mature and more seasoned with grown children, I recognize Teri’s heroism that lies beneath her stern exterior. Back then, I just thought my girl was uptight! Teri, the character portrayed…

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  • Media/Entertainment/Celebs - Television & Film

    I Binge-watched ‘Snowfall’, and This is What I Have to Say!

    April 17, 2024 - By Lakia McDaniel

    Disclaimer: This think piece is a SPOILER, so read at your own risk. While most of America is already calmed down from the shock from the last episode of Snowfall, I utilize my new Hulu profile to get caught up and BABAAAYYYYYY, this captivating six-season series has kept my attention…

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  • Confidence & Self-Discovery - Midlife Reinvention

    Sometimes, It’s not JUST a New Hairstyle!

    April 14, 2024 - By Lakia McDaniel

    Before I get into this think piece, press play below. Firstly, let me shout out Anthony Claxton, the owner of Krew Kuts for making women feel good about themselves in more ways than one. It’s an absolute beautiful thing he’s doing. We women are emotionally tied to our hair, and…

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  • Love, Relationships & Real Talk - Real Talk

    Sex Scenes are Cringy to Watch, but Imma Keep Watching!

    April 14, 2024 - By Lakia McDaniel

    I promise you, I’m not a prude! In real life, sex is a natural human act that can be beautifully made with the right person. However, there’s something about seeing it play out on our televisions and movie screens that makes me squirm with either a full-on blush experience or…

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  • Love, Relationships & Real Talk - Real Talk

    They Know What They Did!

    April 13, 2024 - By Lakia McDaniel

    Now, I’m not advocating for a devoid of forgiveness. Forgiveness has its time and place, especially when it comes to our own peace of mind. But let’s reserve it for those who genuinely deserve it. Those who have acknowledged the wrongdoing and is willing to make it right, instead of…

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    From Diapers to Camouflage: I’m a PROUD NEW Army Mom!

    April 11, 2024 - By Lakia McDaniel

    Imagine your kid trading in sneakers for combat boots! This is MY experience, and let me tell you, the thought of my son leaving has me crying a Denzel tear when he’s not in my presence, but with a smile. I think I’ve done a good job in the motherhood…

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    Let’s Normalize Healthy Platonic Friendships Between Men & Women

    April 11, 2024 - By Lakia McDaniel

    As a fan of Abbott Elementary, I must share that I am here for Janine and Gregory not ending up in a romantic relationship. I haven’t seen a cute friendship like theirs since Jack and Janet on Three’s Company! In the season 2 of Abbott Elementary, Janine and Gregory shared…

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    Trying to Solve Life’s Puzzle Without a Guide

    April 10, 2024 - By Lakia McDaniel

    Navigating a plethora of emotions can often feel like attempting to solve a puzzle without a guidebook. I feel like this song should be the theme song to this think piece, so press play and get submerged in the words. There are moments when we find ourselves unable to decipher…

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Writer, storyteller, and healing Black woman learning to turn her pain into purpose. Through journaling, humor, and unfiltered truth, Lakia explores the messy, magical journey of healing, growth, and glow-ups.

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