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    Did I Push Him Away…Energetically?

    April 6, 2025 - By themusingsofkia

    You ever have a moment where your friend says something so deep, it sits in your spirit like a sermon? That happened to me recently. A friend of mine…who’s not just spiritual, but spiritually gifted, looked at me and said, “You energetically pushed him away… but he’s still coming back.”…

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    Tik Tok…Thank You.

    January 18, 2025 - By themusingsofkia

    Y’all ever had one of those moments where life feels like it’s body-slamming you into the ground, and all you can do is lay there? Yeah, that was me—crushed, confused, and craving some kind of outlet that wouldn’t judge me for my life’s plot twists. Enter TikTok. I know what…

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    Left on Read: Finding Healing After Emotional Withdrawal

    January 18, 2025 - By themusingsofkia

    There’s something uniquely jarring about being ghosted—a gut-punch of silence that leaves you questioning everything: your words, your actions, and even your worth. Now, imagine this happening at the hands of someone you felt deeply connected to, someone you trusted. That’s where I found myself not too long ago—ghosted! If…

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    Telling 2025 to Come in and Sit His A** Down!

    December 24, 2024 - By themusingsofkia

    As the clock ticks closer to 2025, I find myself sitting here, coffee in hand, heart full, and mind buzzing with reflections on a year that felt like a whole dang decade. Listen, 2024 didn’t come to play with me, and honestly, I didn’t back down either. 2024 was not…

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    The 2024 Election Hangover and How to Move Forward (Opinion)

    November 7, 2024 - By themusingsofkia

    This election was a doozy! It’s also taken a lot out of us (us, meaning black folks…particularly black women) Why? Because we’re tired and honestly, we’re done fighting, supporting, marching, standing up for, and holding spaces for those who will let us down over and over and over again. In…

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    Five Activities to Help You Cope with Grief

    September 29, 2024 - By themusingsofkia

    Hey, beautiful People! Let’s be real for a moment – grief is one of those heavy things in life that can feel like it’s swallowing you whole. Whether you’re mourning a loss, an ending, or even a change, grief can leave you feeling lost. But here’s the thing – you…

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    Why The 2025 Superbowl Half Time Show Belongs to Kendrick (opinion)

    September 14, 2024 - By themusingsofkia

    Imagine the Super Bowl halftime show in 2025. The grand stage, the packed crowd, the lights, the energy—now ask yourself, who’s gonna kill it more? Kendrick Lamar or Lil Wayne? Both are legends, no doubt. But my answer is Kendrick Lamar and here’s why. artistry. Kendrick Lamar isn’t just a…

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    Missing My Brother. A Life Gone Too Soon.

    September 8, 2024 - By themusingsofkia

    I’m hurt…angry…and sad. He was only 39 and approaching his 40th bearthday in just a little over a month. What can I say, other than Cancer is a muthaphuckin’ beast that many of us cannot destroy. I hate the C word. It’s ugly… It doesn’t care who you are…what you…

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    Solitude Isn’t Selfish: Why Your Healing Season Requires a Party of One!

    August 25, 2024 - By themusingsofkia

    Let’s get one thing straight: solitude is not a dirty word. In fact, it might just be the most underrated form of self-care. When life knocks you down, there’s this overwhelming urge to surround yourself with people, like their presence will magically patch up your heart. But sometimes, darling, the…

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    Embracing Divine Separation: When God Leads You Away from What No Longer Serves You

    August 18, 2024 - By themusingsofkia

    Separation…Separating…Separated…. As of recent, I’ve been hearing/seeing messages with this word. The easy thing about separating yourself is the unique kind of peace you have when you do. It’s also realizing that not everything (or everyone) in your life is meant to stay forever. Sometimes, you find yourself drifting away…

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In the age of audio/video podcasting, I think I'm one of a VERY FEW who still "blogs".
I come from that old school of personal blogging. I'm a part of a generation that still appreciates the art of expression in words. I guess that's why the passion for it has never really left me.

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