As a fan of Abbott Elementary, I must share that I am here for Janine and Gregory not ending up in a romantic relationship. I haven’t seen a cute friendship like theirs since Jack and Janet on Three’s Company!
In the season 2 of Abbott Elementary, Janine and Gregory shared a kiss. Exploring romance was on the table, but in this 3rd season, Janine wants to continue exploring. Gregory, however, wants to remain friends.
Here’s the thing…
Janine and Gregory, characters brought to life by the comedic acting geniuses, namely Tyler James Williams and Quinta Brunson, serves as a refreshing reminder that not every close connection between a man and a woman needs to culminate in romantic involvement. Media and entertainment often portray male-female interactions solely through a romantic lens, which hopeless romantics such as me can appreciate, but by showcasing a healthy, non-romantic bond between a man and a woman, they break down barriers and pave the way for more inclusive representations of relationships. It’s also a great reminder for us cheerleaders for our faves on the screen to “go together”, that representation of platonic friendships with the opposite sex is necessary and needed.
Girlfriends fans saw what they did with Joan and William!
And let’s not fail to remember Kim and Ron on A Different World!
Unlike the “friends” aforementioned, Janine and Gregory’s portrayal as friends rather than romantic partners explores the complexities of modern relationships and celebrates the diversity of human connections. Their dynamic plays a role in the show’s relatability and resonates with audiences who appreciate realistic portrayals of friendship between men and women.
These types of friendships can serve as a source of emotional support, helping individuals navigate life’s challenges and celebrate successes together without the pressures and complications that sex can create. Becoming romantically involved with a friend of the opposite sex can sometimes cause more harm than good.
Janine and Gregory’s bond serves as a refreshing reminder that not every close connection between a man and a woman needs to culminate in romantic involvement.
I appreciate my male platonic friendships. I have a “Gregory”, even a “Ron”. We don’t talk every day. In fact, it’s been months since we’ve been in each other’s presence, but that’s never changed the place they have in my heart. The value they add to my life is something I’ll forever cherish.
Every girl needs a Gregory:-)
