You ever have a moment where your friend says something so deep, it sits in your spirit like a sermon?
That happened to me recently.
A friend of mine…who’s not just spiritual, but spiritually gifted, looked at me and said, “You energetically pushed him away… but he’s still coming back.”
And whew, listen. She didn’t read a text, didn’t hear a word from me about him, didn’t scroll my timeline for clues. But she knew. And she said it with such calm certainty, like the message was delivered straight from Spirit to her lips.
I couldn’t even argue with her. Because deep down? I felt it too.
Not just the him coming back part…but the me pushing him away part… energetically.
Let’s unpack.
Sometimes we don’t have to say, “I’m done,” for the universe to pick up the message. Our soul gets tired before our mouth does. Our energy starts building boundaries before our brain catches up. That moment you stop overthinking, stop reaching, stop hoping the phone lights up…that’s your energy pulling back.
And maybe that’s what I did. Not out of spite. Not out of bitterness. But out of self-protection. I didn’t slam the door…but I may have quietly started closing it. Maybe it was my way of saying, “Not like this. Not with this silence. Not with this inconsistency.”
But here’s what I love about spiritual insight…it’s not always about loss. Sometimes, it’s just about timing, alignment, and unfinished business. When she said, “He’s still coming back,” I didn’t take that as a fairytale promise. I took it as a whisper from the divine that there’s still a lesson. Still a loop open. Still a thread that hasn’t unraveled completely.
Whether that return looks like reconciliation, closure, or a pop-up “Hey stranger” text…I don’t know. But what I do know is this:
Energy never lies.
When you’re emotionally tuned in, you start to feel shifts before they happen. Your spirit knows before your eyes do.
So if you’re reading this and thinking about someone you’ve let go of energetically, I invite you to sit with this:
“Did I ask for space before I consciously realized it?”
“What part of me is still waiting—for a return, a repair, or a release?”
Because whether they come back or not, you deserve energetic peace. Alignment. And love that doesn’t leave you questioning your worth.
As for me? I’m letting Spirit lead this one. I’m not chasing. I’m not shrinking. I’m just staying open to what’s meant…for me, with me, and in truth.
