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Now That I’m Older, I Feel Her Deeply!

I have sporadically come across this Annie Lee painting called ‘Blue Monday’ throughout my life, and every time I see it, the more I can visually and emotionally relate to it. It didn’t affect me, until I became an adult with a life that’s been lifin’!

Art has a unique way of imitating life and capturing human experiences, often expressing emotions and stories that words alone cannot convey. One such powerful piece is this ‘Blue Monday’ piece… a painting that has resonated deeply with particularly black women who grinds almost daily in the midst of adversity and navigates the day-to-day challenges with grace and resilience.

I swear I looked like this one morning, but I had on a black slip.

This famous piece of art was born from the mind of an artist who sought to encapsulate the weariness and silent strength that defines the lives of many black women. The artist created a piece that would speak directly to our everyday struggles and experiences, and the endurance we maintain throughout our experiences. We feel the weight this woman carries from societal pressures and professional challenges to personal battles and systemic inequalities, because guess what…it’s what we deal with in our everyday lives.

Every frustrated and tired black woman can see a piece of her own story in ‘Blue Monday’, including me. The stoic expression of the woman on her bed reminds me of my daily armor that I’ve been wearing these past few weeks. Death and sickness of loved ones all around me, questionable relationships, financial hardships, and the unavoidable need to live a softer and stress-free life makes me feel what I feel when I look at this painting today. Her weariness conveys my heavy emotion and the weight that I carry.

For the most part, we resonate with ‘Blue Monday’ because it reminds of our silent struggles, the weight of expectations, and the constant need to prove ourselves in environments that often undervalue or overlook our efforts and contributions. It is a visual testament to our resilience, strength, and our need to be seen and heard in a society that doesn’t respect black women.

I appreciate Annie Lee’s ability to capture our weakness AND our strength simultaneously with each stroke of her brush that which created this empowering piece. It resembles the inner strength of the black woman that often goes unnoticed. ‘Blue Monday’ is more than just a painting; it is a tribute to the black woman’s experience. It captures the fatigue, the fight, and the fierce determination that define our daily lives. For every frustrated and tired black woman. It also serves as a reminder that our struggles are seen, our strength is recognized, and our stories are worth telling.

In the age of audio/video podcasting, I think I'm one of a VERY FEW who still "blogs". I come from that old school of personal blogging. I'm a part of a generation that still appreciates the art of expression in words. I guess that's why the passion for it has never really left me.